Tuesday, November 2, 2010

My Dreamhouse

Ever since I was young, I have felt a need to belong to a place.  After never being able to find that place, that look, that feel, I began to think it existed only in my heart, my mind, my soul.  Yes, it is a bit of a religious journey... I was looking for heaven on earth, knowing that heaven could really only exist in heaven.  I really desire a place that  makes me feel, that love emanates from, that  my heavenly family could share in the serenity.  It is a place of contemplation...a place that enters my heart and settles in my soul.  

Until recently, the only place I'd felt that was in the temple.   Now I have found  this space!  Look!  Those windows, that color, the door...it draws me in and invites me to be still.  It is a well-painted landscape.  I  feel at peace and know a well-being for which my soul yearns.
It isn't a house it is a hearth...it is a home...it is love and being loved and family.  Do you feel it? 

Saturday, October 23, 2010

A poem I heard recently. I'll let you draw your own lessons.

A Fence or an Ambulance



'Twas a dangerous cliff, as they freely confessed,

Though to walk near its crest was so pleasant;

But over its terrible edge there had slipped

A duke and full many a peasant.

So the people said something would have to be done,

But their projects did not at all tally;

Some said, "Put a fence 'round the edge of the cliff,"

Some, "An ambulance down in the valley."

But the cry for the ambulance carried the day,

For it spread through the neighboring city;

A fence may be useful or not, it is true,

But each heart became full of pity

For those who slipped over the dangerous cliff;

And the dwellers in highway and alley

Gave pounds and gave pence, not to put up a fence,

But an ambulance down in the valley.

"For the cliff is all right, if you're careful," they said,

"And, if folks even slip and are dropping,

It isn't the slipping that hurts them so much

As the shock down below when they're stopping."

So day after day, as these mishaps occurred,

Quick forth would those rescuers sally

To pick up the victims who fell off the cliff,

With their ambulance down in the valley.

Then an old sage remarked: "It's a marvel to me

That people give far more attention

To repairing results than to stopping the cause,

When they'd much better aim at prevention.

Let us stop at its source all this mischief," cried he,

"Come, neighbors and friends, let us rally;

If the cliff we will fence, we might almost dispense

With the ambulance down in the valley."

"Oh he's a fanatic," the others rejoined,

"Dispense with the ambulance? Never!

He'd dispense with all charities, too, if he could;

No! No! We'll support them forever.

Aren't we picking up folks just as fast as they fall?

And shall this man dictate to us? Shall he?

Why should people of sense stop to put up a fence,

While the ambulance works in the valley?"
But the sensible few, who are practical too,

Will not bear with such nonsense much longer;

They believe that prevention is better than cure,

And their party will soon be the stronger.

Encourage them then, with your purse, voice, and pen,

And while other philanthropists dally,

They will scorn all pretense, and put up a stout fence

On the cliff that hangs over the valley.

Better guide well the young than reclaim them when old,

For the voice of true wisdom is calling.

"To rescue the fallen is good, but 'tis best

To prevent other people from falling."

Better close up the source of temptation and crime

Than deliver from dungeon or galley;

Better put a strong fence 'round the top of the cliff

Than an ambulance down in the valley.

-- Joseph Malins (1895)

Monday, August 23, 2010

Lessons I Have Learned

One: What I have learned as a parent: Once your children are married,


(both biological and those by marriage) you hope they find joy, not

happiness, but joy in life and leave all the petty little things that

tend to creep into relationships, untended: own them then get rid of

them-like the weeds they are.
 
Two: What I have learned as a parent:  It's easier to be a parent when

your children are home-once they are married you just hope that you

have raised them to be the best tender, loving, caring spouses possible

and hope that their spouse recognizes that in them.

Three: As a person, don't eat pizza late at night no matter how yummy it is.
 
Four:  The mother in me has one last bit of advice to all the young

marrieds-treat your spouse like the treasure they are, they obviously

had good enough sense and taste to choose you for a partner; accept

their love, compliments and care for them-they love you. Now if I can

...just learn to go back to sleep when I wake in the middle of the night.

Sunday, August 8, 2010

The Wedding - Congratulations Alex and Chelsea Hallam

This picture was taken at the temple two days before the wedding:

Looking pretty happy!

The sun was shining right in our eyes!
Alex and Chelsea looked a little nervous and very happy as they listened to the advice given to them by the sealer at the temple.  I'll be honest though, I expected a more committed kiss after they were pronounced husband and wife.  I think Alex was just happy that Chelsea said "yes" when it was time to say "I do." 

It was a very sunny day, some would even call it hot, outside as pictures were being snapped.  So many pictures, but well worth the sunny/hot day.  They turned out great!  Don't you think?


The lunch was awesome!  It was some of the best Chinese food I think I've ever tasted.  Anjahli even liked it!  Whew, sometimes getting her to eat good food is nearly impossible.


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Andy and Gwen Loughe


We were late getting to the reception, because our GPS system took us on a wild-goose chase.  I am glad that Wes decided to just start driving away from the instructions while "Susan-the GPS lady-voice" figured out just where she wanted us to really go.  Gwen Loughe and and all her help really did a wonderful job in decorating.  The food was delicious.  I have pictures of the crep-chef. 
 

There was some dancing while some mysterious people decorated the car.  I'm not saying who decorated the car.  I'll let you draw your own conclusions.
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